Finding Faith at Forty

Reader Kyle Curtis describes his journey to faith within the Church of Scotland.

“ From the moment I stepped into the church, I was struck by his kind and approachable manner.

FOR much of my life, the Church and religion weren’t part of my story.

Growing up, I didn’t hold any strong religious beliefs. During my teens and twenties, I served in the Army and occasionally encountered the padre or a scripture reader, but their presence did not spark an interest in faith. Later, when I transitioned to a career as a police officer, which I held for 12 years, faith still didn’t play a role in my day-to-day life.

It was not until two years ago that my path took an unexpected turn. My motherin-law, Joan, passed away. Her loss was a profound moment for our family, and as my wife Gina and her brothers arranged the funeral, they realised they didn’t know the local minister near her care home on the outskirts of Clydebank.

The funeral director suggested the Rev Gregor McIntyre of Faifley and Duntocher Parish Church. Despite not knowing Joan, Gregor kindly offered to conduct the service. In the weeks that followed, Gina and I decided to attend Gregor’s services to get to know him better. From the moment I stepped into the church, I was struck by his kind and approachable manner. Gregor had a unique way of explaining the story of Christ – clear, engaging, and relatable. His cheerful disposition and genuine kindness radiate through the congregation. It was not long before I began attending his evening Bible studies and, more recently, the Alpha course he organised on Wednesday evenings. Gina has also become involved, giving a talk at the local Guild, on her job as a radio presenter.

What has stood out to me most is the extraordinary kindness and sense of belonging within the church. There is a tangible community spirit that draws people together, offering comfort, friendship, and support. It has become a vital part of my life, sustaining me in ways I never imagined possible.

For me, discovering the story of Christ has been transformative. I have started reading the Bible, eager to learn more and explore the depths of my faith. This newfound relationship with God has filled my life with excitement and purpose. Prayer has become a powerful and grounding practice, guiding me to strive every day to become a better person and help others wherever I can.

Looking back, I can see God’s hand in leading me to the Church. Joan, a committed Presbyterian, had always encouraged me to explore faith, though I was dismissive at the time. Ironically, it was her passing that finally brought me to Christ – a testament, I believe, to God’s mysterious and loving ways.

Today, I am proud to call myself a Christian, ready to make up for lost time. I pray daily for wisdom and guidance, seeking to remain on the path God has set for me. I am deeply grateful to Joan, Gregor, and the welcoming congregation at Faifley and Duntocher Parish Church for helping me find my faith.

The future is bright for the Church of Scotland, and I am excited to play my part in keeping its spirit alive and thriving. ¤